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    Every progressive movement leads to backlash
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    Dressed in his trademark sunglasses and a skintight black T-shirt, Andrew Tate strode into a Las Vegas arena like a returning king.

    He was there to watch Power Slap, a UFC offshoot where people slap each other in the face with such force that doctors say it could lead to brain damage and death.

    Days earlier, Tate and his brother Tristan had been in Romania, their assets seized, awaiting trial on human trafficking charges. But following reported conversations between Romanian officials and the Trump administration, the Romanian government lifted a travel ban on the brothers.

    Now, as a heavily male crowd watched men slap one another so hard they collapsed, the UFC president, Dana White, warmly embraced the Tates.

    White, a Trump ally and Meta board member who was once caught on camera slapping his own wife, smiled at the Tates, looked them in the eyes, and told them: “Welcome to the States, boys.”

    The next day, the Tates were back for a mixed martial arts fight night. This time, they were joined in the crowd by the FBI director, Kash Patel, and Mel Gibson another Trump ally, who once pled no contest to a misdemeanor domestic violence charge.

    It was a show of manpower, in every sense of the word. And it’s the kind of head-spinning display that has become a fixture of US politics.

    Eight years ago, the words “#MeToo” was thumbed out more than 19m times on Twitter.

    Pundits feared that a single, unproven allegation could vaporize a man’s career. Now, the Trump administration seems to treat such allegations as a job requirement.

    Two members of Trump’s cabinet stand accused of sexual assault, while another allegedly enabled the sexual abuse of children.

    Elon Musk, whose “department of government efficiency” is now shredding federal agencies, has been said to treat women like sex objects “to be evaluated on their bra size”.

    And, of course, there’s Trump himself: a man who has gloried in “grabbing ‘em by the pursey”, been found liable for the sexual abuse of one woman and faced accusations of sexual misconduct from dozens more. (All of these people deny wrongdoing, except White, who has admitted to slapping his wife.)

    Meanwhile, famous women who say they were hurt are torn apart on the internet. Even Twitter is gone, cannibalized by Musk into X.

    How did this happen? How could the United States, so recently the beating heart of a global movement to stop sexual violence, go so thoroughly – and brutishly – backwards?

    Over years of interviewing sex and sexual violence researchers, educators, activists, pollsters and scores of ordinary Americans under 30, I have heard all kinds of thoughts and theories about sex and gender relations in the post-#MeToo US.

    Overall, people agreed, there is far more cultural awareness of sexual misconduct. Dozens of states have moved to protect people from workplace harassment, while nearly 30 have loosened their statutes of limitation around allegations of sex abuse, allowing people to pursue lawsuits that would have once been off-limits.

    These are not small victories, but they are limited ones. Many of the #MeToo movement’s demands were never cemented into policy.

    But those demands, and the cultural strides that accompanied them, have proved enough to spark a revenge campaign that is not only setting fire to hard-won rights for women, LGBTQ+ folks and people of color but also sending young men careening to the right.

    These men are finding a home in the manosphere, that burgeoning online realm that is at best uninterested in women and at worst interested in violating them.

    The sweeping nature of the backlash to #MeToo – playing out in our federal government, on our screens, in our communities – can feel so all-encompassing as to be overwhelming.

    Did it have to be this way? As Americans struggle to respond to the whiplash, the #MeToo movement’s legacy reveals some much needed lessons about how progressives and feminists may move forward in a deeply uncertain time. For starters: talk about class, and talk to men. Indeed, these may be the same lesson.…….

     
    Subjectively - I see far more overt misogyny now than I can ever remember in my 70 years of life. For sure far more than in the last 40 years or so.

    Maddening.
     
    Subjectively - I see far more overt misogyny now than I can ever remember in my 70 years of life. For sure far more than in the last 40 years or so.

    Maddening.

    It is really weird actually. It is as if the US is moving backwards while the rest of the world is moving ahead.
     
    Interesting part of article
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    In the 1980s, the disappearance of manufacturing jobs and the demonization of welfare led men to scapegoat women for their economic frustrations.

    Men have always been more conservative than women, but poll after poll in those years found that single young men increasingly “feared and reviled feminism”, Faludi wrote.

    One pollster told her: “It’s these downscale men, the ones who can’t earn as much as their fathers, who we find are the most threatened by the women’s movement.”

    In this moment of political peril and outright hostility towards feminism, the #MeToo movement’s triumphs and losses offer organizers a lesson: focus on class and men.

    Men’s economic anxieties remain inextricably tied to their feelings about masculinity, feminism and sexual violence – and women remain easy targets.

    A 2023 not-yet-published study authored by Annabelle Hutchinson, an assistant professor of government at New York’s Hamilton College, found that when white men are out of work, they become less likely to vote for women.

    They also become more likely to support statements like “women who complain about discrimination and harassment cause more problems than they solve.” (White women, Black men and Latino men were not found to react this way.)……..
     
    Interesting part of article
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    In the 1980s, the disappearance of manufacturing jobs and the demonization of welfare led men to scapegoat women for their economic frustrations.

    Men have always been more conservative than women, but poll after poll in those years found that single young men increasingly “feared and reviled feminism”, Faludi wrote.

    One pollster told her: “It’s these downscale men, the ones who can’t earn as much as their fathers, who we find are the most threatened by the women’s movement.”

    In this moment of political peril and outright hostility towards feminism, the #MeToo movement’s triumphs and losses offer organizers a lesson: focus on class and men.

    Men’s economic anxieties remain inextricably tied to their feelings about masculinity, feminism and sexual violence – and women remain easy targets.

    A 2023 not-yet-published study authored by Annabelle Hutchinson, an assistant professor of government at New York’s Hamilton College, found that when white men are out of work, they become less likely to vote for women.

    They also become more likely to support statements like “women who complain about discrimination and harassment cause more problems than they solve.” (White women, Black men and Latino men were not found to react this way.)……..

    The major difference lies in education. Traditionally, white males have been privileged, and American culture has long upheld the idea that men should be the primary providers. However, women now outnumber men significantly in college education, challenging that traditional mold. As gender roles continue to shift, this threatens the perception of male superiority—especially among white males with lower levels of education, who may feel most affected by these changes

    In 2022, the college enrollment rate for 18- to 24-year-old females was 44%, while for males in the same age group, it was 34%. This 10-percentage-point gap mirrors the disparity observed in 2012. Notably, the overall enrollment rate for males decreased from 38% in 2012 to 34% in 2022.
    In fall 2021, female students comprised 58% of total undergraduate enrollment (approximately 8.9 million students), whereas male students accounted for 42% (about 6.5 million students).

    As of 2022, among adults aged 25 and older, 39.1% of women held bachelor's degrees compared to 36.6% of men. Specifically, an estimated 26.6 million males and 29.8 million females over the age of 18 had earned a bachelor's degree. Additionally, 13.9 million women held master's degrees versus 10.3 million men.
     
    Women have outnumbered men in college enrollment since the 80’s, 58% vs 42% in the fall of 2022. All these attacks on women, higher education, and science are all related.
     
    It is really weird actually. It is as if the US is moving backwards while the rest of the world is moving ahead.
    Every day this country feels increasingly unrecognizable. I don't really feel like I belong here anymore, with the way things are going. But honestly I have felt this way since 2015 when he won the first time. Only somehow it feels even worse than before
     
    Every day this country feels increasingly unrecognizable. I don't really feel like I belong here anymore, with the way things are going. But honestly I have felt this way since 2015 when he won the first time. Only somehow it feels even worse than before
    By chance, I’ve been rewatching a few episodes of All In The Family.
    And I gotta say, the country has always been like this.

    Saying that, I think this entire Trump era is a backlash from a certain segment that are angry that Obama was elected.
     
    By chance, I’ve been rewatching a few episodes of All In The Family.
    And I gotta say, the country has always been like this.

    Saying that, I think this entire Trump era is a backlash from a certain segment that are angry that Obama was elected.
    “For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction,” or something like that.
     
    By chance, I’ve been rewatching a few episodes of All In The Family.
    And I gotta say, the country has always been like this.

    Saying that, I think this entire Trump era is a backlash from a certain segment that are angry that Obama was elected.

    The bigotry isn't new but it goes way beyond that. The homegrown attacks on our democracy and constitution. The unraveling of decades of progress. Both the means of spreading misinformation and the broad embrace of that misinformation.
     
    By chance, I’ve been rewatching a few episodes of All In The Family.
    And I gotta say, the country has always been like this.

    Saying that, I think this entire Trump era is a backlash from a certain segment that are angry that Obama was elected.
    To clarify, when I wrote that, I was thinking about everything he stands for, all his policies, his turn towards authoritarianism, pro-russia stance, etc... and thinking about those people who voted for (agreed with, for whatever reason are okay with what he is doing, or trying to do, and/or chose him over the more reasonable choice etc). I don't really feel like what I was taught to believe aligns with him winning not once, but twice. When faced with proof and a history of him doing and saying things, a portion of this country decided his way was more preferable to the alternative. And since that is the direction the country decided to go, I feel completely disenfranchised and disaffected (a new term I recently learned about)
     

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